A few weeks ago I had a date with Apple, this little Vietnamese knockout I met online. She had a radiant smile and a body built for sin but I sensed something was wrong. From the minute we locked eyes I knew she didn’t want to be on this date. Was I that ugly?
Thirty minutes later and a tummy full of Don’s Bogam (Korean BBQ) I found out her boyfriend of two years cheated on her and this was her first date since the breakup. As I listened to her story frustration and sadness filled my heart. Here I was on a date with a gorgeous woman that I wanted but had no shot. No one did.
The worst part is this isn’t the first time this has happened. In fact its been a recurring theme with match.com. In the past 6 months that I’ve been using the service I’ve observed that most women use the site as a testing ground for getting back into the dating scene. The only problem is most women on it aren’t ready to date.