Some how I got into a conversation about my blog last night. Concerns about it being linked to my Facebook profile and open to anyone were some of the topics. But the most disturbing was how it depicts me and my lifestyle. Some people feel it portrays me in a bad light.
I’m not really sure how I feel about this. I understand that at times I say things that would be frowned upon and reflect poorly on me but people need to realize that blogs are journals. A place where the id, ego and super ego run wild and free.
My Blog
I was so concerned by this one persons reaction that I went back thru all my entries and concluded that I’ve always treated everyone with the utmost respect. Sure I may have been thinking something else at the moment but don’t we all?
In going back I noticed that most of my entries breakdown into two categories: (1) me experiencing moments in time and (2) me expressing my hopes, dreams and desires. I believe this is a key distinguishing factor.
We’ve all had moments in our lives where we wish we would have acted a certain way or wanted something but couldn’t due to social pressures. A person may wish their boss dead and write a funny haiku but they don’t really mean it. It’s a form of release. I understand that an entry that makes reference to just wanting to sleep with a woman may turn people off or give the impression I’m a D-Bag. But wanting and doing are two different things.
My blog is a collection of some of my thoughts and experiences. That in no way should be taken as the definitive road map to my thoughts and desires. Think of it like cliff notes, Tamayo edition. If anything I hope who ever is reading realizes I’m a flawed and fallible person that is trying deal and learn from the ups and downs of life.
Conclusion
At the end of the day I understand their concerns. They’re just trying to get me to stop and think about what I’m posting. An entry that I feel is harmless may end up doing damage to my friendships and career.
So, for that concern, thank you. I truly appreciate it.